Memorial Day

Did you know that Memorial Day began in 1868? It was started by General John Logan. It began as a time to decorate the graves of Civil War veterans. ( I do love a Confederate!) It has evolved into a time to commemorate all the deceased.

My daddy died of lung cancer 17 years ago and my mom had COPD and died 8 years ago. I was so lucky because she was living with us at the time; and that made her very happy. She just wanted to be a part of our daily lives. She loved watching Laura 'breeze' in and out and Emily's visits from school. Missing my parents is as constant for me as eating and breathing.

I'm an only child and obviously they were an integral part of my life. Their passing has made a void in my life that no one else can ever fill. Yet, I am so honored to have been placed by God into their lives. (Doesn't He just know everything?) I was raised in a Godly home by Godly parents; I have increasingly become aware of the rarity of this lifestyle. From them I learned how to love. I also learned from them how to love others. How to serve. And how to give. Their lives are my legacy. Thanks Momma and Daddy! And thank you God for your divine providence.

My daddy was a career military man. I was always so proud of him. If I stop for a second I can still smell his uniform. I can feel the wool of his dress blues. I remember a skirt and weskett (vest) that my mom made for me out of one of his old set of blues! With a crisp white blouse! I can close my eyes and remember getting the news that his ship was docking and the rush to get there. All the preparations for his 'coming home'! Mom would clean the house - spick and span. She would wash the car. We would get all dressed up! Momma with her signature Revlon Red lipstick (Daddy always loved Momma in lipstick). Awww, the excitement of seeing him again after a 'cruise'.

As I get older, I am getting ready for the ship to dock (to see them again). I am keeping my house (my life) spick and span, I am washing my car (guiding my family), I am getting dressed up (staying the course with my Lord and Savior) and so excited to meet the ship (see their loving faces in heaven).

I can't wait to see them again!